Helping people out.

Hey girls I wanna do a quick post and see what u all think I should do. My so is continually giving money out to people and I'm trying to get him to understand that people have not helped us out. They have seen us struggling day in and day out. And nobody wants to help us when we ask for help. I've just started my new job today and I'm trying to get through to him that I'm not going to be helping everyone under the moon. Just because some of our so called friends ask for money every time we get some he wants to give it out. I know I may sound like a b**** but I refuse to help people that hasn't helped us. Sure could use some advice thanks n advance.