Jealousy and rage PLEASE HELP

How do you all that have been trying keep a level head. When 2 family members found out i was trying for a baby they decided they were going to beat me to it and they succeded. One just found out and the other is 4mths prego. Both announced the pregnancy and said i feel bad cause i know you been trying. And like right now I'm the only non pregnant girl here when hanging out at the brother in laws. There are 3 pregos here and im not.