I had been unhappy in marriage for some time since learning about his first affair. But I stayed bc I thought we could make it work. But nothing change. I found more escorts and the money never added up. But yet I stayed again. 

The reason I want to divorce because I feel like I got married for all the wrong reasons. Before we married, I had second thoughts. It was so bad I wasn't eating nor sleeping. Something just didn't feel right. I felt like we rushed into things after reuniting. Yes I said reunited. My husband is my high school sweetheart. But we parted ways during my senior year. He went to jail and I went off to college. So we were separated for about 8 years before he found through Facebook. 

I'm totally unhappy and don't see any growth with him. 

Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated 

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