Should I be mad?

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Ok well I'm not mad per sat but should I be frustrated? The deal is my FH and I work opposite shifts. I work 8 days on get 6 off and he works 5 on 2 off. His days off are like Monday and Tuesday. Well he was off today while I was at work(slept all day because he works nights normally) and he spent the evening with me. I have to go to bed because I have to get up at 4am for work and he says when I go to sleep he is going to go play cards with his friends for about an hour. (Don't make assumptions I know he will be with 2 of his friends because one of their dad's died recently and he needs his friends). Well anyway I feel kind of frustrated because I feel like he should be here with me even though I'm going to bed rather than go there. He is only going for an hour. Am I being the crazy clingy fiance???

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Yes. You're being a little crazy.

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I'm confused- you'll be asleep so he can't do anything? If you were awake I could understand wanting to spend time with him but its odd to dictate what he can and can't do after you fall asleep

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If its not an everyday thing and he's going to be w his friend who lost his dad, I wouldnt be mad at all

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I think you're being a normal girl. If you know he'll be with those friends, and only for an hour, let him. You'll be asleep. I know what you mean though, you want him there with you. Ask him if maybe tomorrow night he'll spend it with you instead.

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Yeah your being clingy, it's his day off so he should be able to do something that he wants to do because the rest of the time he is working to help provide for you both. With him going after you go to bed shows that he wants to spend time with you while your awake. Let him have his time especially since it's only a hour.

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I'm the same way. But if it's only an hr and you're going to be asleep anyway, let him go. It's not like he's out cheating.

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It is okay to be frustrated as long as you understand where he's coming from. It's normal to want to spend a lot of time with someone you love and care about, just make sure to always consider their life too.

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Try to flip it around.. How would you feel about going to be with a friend in need for an hour while he was asleep?

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He's Probably Just Trying To Fit Work, You, And His Friends In One Schedule. You Have To Remember That Men Dont Think Like Women. He's Really Just Tryna Get Some "Guy" Time While You're Sleep Causeee Well You're Sleep. . .It Just Kind Of Makes More Sense To A Man. They Dont Understand That We Love Their Presence Even When Sleeping, Just Want Them To Want To Be Around You Whenever Its Possible. They Do Not See It That Way But Just Dont Sweat It Too Much But Just As Long As Its Not Soo Frequent.

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Mmmm I don't know people, I'm with her on this. Why does he have to sneak out while she is asleep? In that case, he could have gone earlier to his friends house and then spend the night/cuddle... I would keep an eye on your relationship, it seems that your working schedules are taking a toll and you should maybe go discuss with a professional about this...

Should I be mad?

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