How do I tell people in a nice way ?

I'm going to a family party (my husbands family) and there's people that havent seen my baby since she was born and others that haven't seen her at all so this will be their first time meeting her and I know they're all going to be excited and I don't want to be mean but I don't want anyone asking to hold her , my daughter is so attached to me that she won't go with anyone else except my mom and my babys dad and if I let anyone else hold her she cries  . I don't want to put her through that , she hates when people bundle over her all at once  . My sister in law is the only one she won't cry with but she does make a sort of pouting   face until I talk to her. Well anyways, I don't want my sister in law holding her either . She used to ask me if she can hold her and last time my husband and I got into a fight she all of a sudden doesnt like me since then so when she wants to hold my baby she only comes up to me when my husband is next to me and she talks to my baby asking her to go with her I only let her hold her because my husband is there and I don't want him to get mad at me with my sister in law it's a personal issue but with the rest of the family it's not it's just if my daughter doesn't want anyone else holding her why put her through that . I don't know how to not be mean about it