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Question

Okay . So I'm Currently About To Be Employed . I Like To Take Control Over My Relationships . As In I Like To Be The One To Ask A Man Out To Dinner & Pay , I Would Maybe Be The One To Ask A Man To Marry Then First , I Like To Be The One Do Pay & Do Thinga For A Man . I Never Used To Like Being Pampered By A Guy . Yes I Guess Its Nice If A Guy Offers Some Food Or Something But Normally I Would Feel Bad . Anyway . Does It Seem Weird Or Wrong If I Was The One To Ask A Guy Out First Or Pay For Some Dinners & Dates ? Which Do You Guys Perfer Doing ?

Answer

There's a reason why guy paying for first few dates and doing the initiating and chasing is the norm. It just works that way , it's animal instinct. Dont try to go against the very core of animal instinct. Males love to conquer and chase that's the male hormone. Females love to be taken care of because females will have babies and wont be able to go hunting to take care of themselves. It goes to the pirmitive days. It's modern world but the very core of the animal instinct wont change though it's quite subtle now. Dont go against the general norm. You'll just end up getting hurt. Go with the flow

Answer

My Oma was dating in the 40's, and I've found that what she's says is applicable.

"Always go Dutch, that way if he can't handle you, he can leave on a full stomach, or if he can handle you, he'll be intrigued enough for dessert, which usually leads to becoming an Opa & Oma"

Answer

I think a guy should pay for the first date. After that you can either go Dutch or trade off... Then again, my husband never left me pay for a thing when we were dating. And as far as a woman proposing- only on leap day.

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