He's just not interested?

Question

When we first began dating 3 years ago, my boyfriend was excited by my sex drive. I know I rock his world in the sheets, and he knows I always want it. So why don't I get it anymore? Why when I ask if he wants to watch a movie or eat, does he always choose eat?
I can't help but suspect it's self-esteem. 
In contrast, I've got a fwb who could give a shit if I cum or not, and does me any time, any day, as much as he can. Sadly, this dude is not as satisfying or interesting and I still feel hurt that my boyfriend shows zero interest in me. Have you dealt with this before?

Answer

If you want his full attention you should give him yours. You shouldn't be with someone else whether he allows it or not. He obviously doesn't want to sure anymore.

Answer

So you have a boyfriend and a FWB....maybe that's the problem.

Answer

Maybe you being with another man is the problem. What is YOUR problem anyway? You're the one that's cheating sweetie.

Answer

You can't expect him to want to sleep with you if he thinks you have a fwb. That's cheating. And if you want him to give you 100% maybe you should give him 100%

Answer

I'm not sure how my being with another man influences his being attracted to me. If you mean I don't deserve to want his attention when I give mine somewhere else, it's allowed in our relationship.

Answer

Whether it's "allowed" or not, he can't be thrilled about it. You really should talk to him. Because maybe he's fed up with an open relationship and just wants you to himself. That's what a relationship is supposed to be. At least if you love the person. When you LOVE someone you don't want to be with anyone else.

Answer

Being with someone for three years seems pretty serious, if you have a fwb that he most likely knows about why would he give you what you want when you aren't giving him the respect he wants?

Answer

Maybe he suspects you have a fwb, and is distancing himself in preparation for a breakup. You can't expect someone to put forth 100% when you're not.

He's just not interested?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products