Sex during early pregnancy

I've been advised not to have asx until after we hear the heartbeat. 
Obviously I'm not going to do anything that would but my baby at risk. 
But is penetration the problem or is it the orgasm?
TMI: I would like to be intimate with my husband, is fooling around okay as long as there is no penetration?

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