Is it me?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years... All of which we haven't used protection. However I have never gotten pregnant... 
He won't go to the dr to see if he is sterile or has a low count, and I get my period (irregular sometimes). Could it be me that is the reason? I was reading about how my body could not be producing the correct hormones to support a fetus, but I'm just not sure. 
Please help :(

Answer

Well it could be either of you. The best thing is to get checked out, but him not going to the doctor really isn't fair to the other person involved. (You) Have you gone to the doctor for yourself yet? If not, maybe it might make him take it serious if you go first. Are you both TTC, or are you just wondering why you haven't gotten pregnant after not using protection for so long?

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I have the same situation I've been with my bf for 7 years we never used a condom. It's my dream 2 to have children. These past 2 years we have tried n nothing. I think there's something wrong with me or maybe him. We have talked and he said when ever I'm ready to go to the doctors n get checked with him I will let him know.   So talk to your bf about it. Good luck :)

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I've been with my boyfriend exactly 2 years on Nov 2. And we never used protection and he always came in me. I still haven't gotten pregnant. Actively trying to get pregnant for the past yearZ and still nothing. He won't go to the doctor either. I think it's them being scared that it could be them, and can't provide what they need to to get us pregnant. My period used to be irregular, now they are regular only late when I'm extremely stressed or traveling. I have been worrying about the same thing as well and haven't been able to ask my doctor either. I feel like she will judge me. I'm 23 years old. Graduated, but I feel since she's known me since I was 15 she would just judge me.

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It could be something with your body or his. I would talk to the doctor about making sure nothing is up on your end & then have a heart to heart & explain why you want him to get checked & how important it is to you.

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