Dreams about aborted baby?

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***please don't judge, I'm having a hard time with this, and trying to heal***

January of 2014 I found out I was pregnant. At first my fiancé and I were very happy, but then my family put so much stress on me, stopped talking to me completely, and I began feeling suicidal which led to me feeling like I had to have an abortion.

I always felt like the baby was a girl, and I feel like at one point I was visited by her to let me know she was happy and healthy in heaven. I'd been having a really hard time dealing with having the abortion (I still struggle sometimes with it).  Lately I've been having more dreams about a baby, and I can't help but feel like it's her visiting me again.

Has anyone else had this happen or something similar?

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It's just about normal you have this feelings, know that it's never an easy process to heal, we all have sooo many different emotions but know that you are not the decisions you take, you're a wonderful human who had the chance to be blessed with the presence of another little soul, but that little soul was only meant to experience your womb for a little while, to have a human experience.
That soul is gone, and know that if you have beautiful feelings telling you that she is okay it's time to let go. :)

If you have guilt feelings it's not because of the abortion, it's because of the circumstances you got pregnant, specially when it wasn't planned, you have to heal the reasons why you couldn't have a baby, and you'll see everything in a different way, keep your head up, your heart open.
I also recommend you to read peace after abortion by Ava Torrebueno 👌

Much love your way!

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I 100% think she is visiting you. To help you heal. 
Take comfort in that.

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suicide rate is really high in women who  get abortions. take care of yourself & believe that your baby is ok where she is.

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I haven't, but I just wanted to say keep your head up.

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Forgive your self it's no ones business but yours ,,,,,❣️

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Normal. Sorry. I would get counseling. Sounds like U didn't want to lose your baby. U def.need to nurture yourself right now.

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I had the Same thing happen to Me i had a dream where i could feel the baby see her it was a little girl made me feel horrible.

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It is completely normal, I don't think people should judge others on choosing to have an abortion. Nobody is anyone else's shoes and nobody knows a situation. It feels terribl, I know but you have to take comfort in the fact that she has come to you and shown you she is safe and happy. Keep your chin up xx

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I had dreams for months after my two abortions (age 17 and 23). They stopped eventually but they made me feel insanely guilty. The first was due to sexual assault and the second I was in an abusive relationship.

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you have a lot on your mind about it, if even subconsciously.
my advice would be to bring it to the front of your mind and take some time to really think about it. Get all your thoughts out. Write them down draw picture. And really come to terms with the past and the present and just accept yourself and your situation.
THEN after you have given yourself time to really think through it and move on. When you find yourself having these dreams, you need to distract yourself and not think about the dream at all. Don’t talk about the dream. 
when you have a dream and then you think about that dream during the day, your brain dreams about the things you did that day, and if you were thinking about the dream then you end up dreaming about it again. it becomes a cycle and the more you dream about it the more you can’t stop thinking about how you keep dreaming about it and so forth. so really try to not think about it. just leave dreams in dream land. do something else besides talk about your dream.

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