Needing serious advice please...
I don't ever post things like this on this site but I'm needing advice from someone who does not know me or my family so you don't be biased about the situation. So back when I was prego. In 2013 Jeremy (my husband) worked with a girl named Anastasia. I knew her because she was a customer with CellTech where I worked at the time. Well he told me that she would not stop texting him and had started spreading rumors that they were meeting up on the weekends/at night also and having "relations". I sent her a nice little home wrecker message she replied that Jeremy is the one contacting her and then she went out got a new cell number and text him again saying don't let Kim know this is my new number so we can stay in contact. He told me and I freaked out a little more and then she disappeared.WELL... he has been real weird about his phone photos lately and had a lock on his gallery making silly comments to me that I always steal his photos of Aspyn (our daughter) so he put a lock on it. One day I had to fix his phone for him which had me getting into his gallery so he unlocked it and he didn't realize that I saw him put the code it. So with that code I got curious if it was the code to his "gallery lock application" also. AND IT WAS! So I saw 4 different nude photos. Looks like 2 or 3 different girls. One of which had enough in the photo (tattoo, bedroom decorations) that I would be able to know who it was if I found something on their Facebook. Well he is not friends with her (Anastasia) online so I never thought of looking her up. Until one day her name just came to me and I don't know why. I looked her up on Facebook and there was a photo of her with her shirt up (no tattoo) showing her pre-workout body and then another photo a few months later with a post workout body (with tattoo and bedroom decorations). So I knew it was here in the naked photo he had on his phone locked away and she just so happened to get the tattoo a few months ago so its a recent photo sent to him not like he has had it for years. I let it go and had not said anything well when I got home last night Aspyn (from a weekend trip to a wedding) was playing with his phone. When I took it away she was in messaging and there was chats back and forth from a Bobbi in his contacts. I wouldn't have known it was her but she sent another workout photo to him and he replied "That's very sexy". Also had comments to her about she changes her number a lot and stupid shit so he is obviously chatting with her since he knows that information and he changed her name to something weird so I wouldn't notice it in his contacts.I am not one to snoop cause he does it to me all the time and I hate it but have nothing to hide. He had been weird and now I know why. I am about to go freaking CRAZY!What are your thoughts??? What should I do or say. I have been unhappy for a while and haven't known why. Maybe he was messing around back when I was pregnant? And now is still talking to her. What to do??
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