dilemma

I'm 21 wks and this evening my bf and I got in a huge argument because i called at 9 pm to find out where the hell he was. he doesn't answer and calls back. he's all apologetic ands says sorry he didn't answer, but he was washing his car. he gets off work at 6/7 and so I yell at him that it's 9 pm and it only takes him 30 min to get home. he starts to tell me we aren't on speaking terms and he doesn't want to just sit on the couch at home. so I told him if he didn't want to come home and didn't like it there then just leave. he then told me F*@$ you and hung up on me. I had a severe anxiety attack and that started contractions and here I am in L&R.

my mom texts him to tell him to talk to me because she's needing to take me to the hospital and his reply is 'she told me not to come home'. I am beyond pissed at the lack of responsibility/obligation he feels he has to me. I'm thinking I'm breaking up with him. we've been living together 2 years and I'm shocked he didn't think it necessary to come to the hospital. comments suggestions welcomed. thanks in advance.