2 MC, but two different prenatal care experiences!

I had two mc, but experience was definitely different. With my first pregnancy, I had a midwife and she was over the moon supportive and loving. She followed up afterwards and was just wonderful, like a best friend! Now....my second pregnancy care was straight out of a horror movie and I was under the care of a obgyn and high risk doctor....there are no words to explain how uncaring they were...to them I was a number and a paycheck. I ended up delivering at 17 weeks where I had to wait to be check in at the hospital for 5 hours...it took my water breaking and for blood to be everywhere for them to take me serious. After I delievered they asked if I wanted to see the "specimen" 😨. I saw my doctor one time after delivery and he was just rude and not caring (like a check on his checklist) and my postpartum check up was with some random family doctor they sent me too...the hospital experience sucked and felt like hell...as you can see I have no good things to say about obgyn or hospitals so I'm going to end that rant. Overall, I will always go with a midwife if I can, bc the experience is soooo much different.

What was your experience like and what care would you choose?