So. . This is my second pregnancy and I should feel happy ecstatic etc. I'm lucky to be pregnant and have the gift to have another child. Right now though I am finding it hard to be happy about it. I had a scare at 9 weeks. But everything is OK now. I'm going on 11 weeks. I am on progesterone and restriction from sex. Is been almost 2 months no sex and I'm going crazy. My husband is being a jerk constantly making comments about blow jobs etc. I know this is something I should be better about and I'm being selfish because he doesn't do anything to me. Nothing sweet etc but expects me to give him a blow job when he asks. I just started a new job 4 weeks ago and it's demanding right now bc I'm new. This job makes me the bread winner of the family at the moment and I feel like he resents me for my accomplishments when really he says he doesn't. I do the grocery shopping and cook 90%of the time. I feel like if I wasn't pregnant right now things would be easier. I wouldn't be emotional I wouldn't be tired all the time and I wouldn't be so stressed out.

I have worked so hard to be where I am today and we also planned this pregnancy. Why do I feel like this was unplanned and no one is excited about it or supportive? We haven't told work or family just yet bc of the threatened miscarriage but we are telling them on thanksgiving. I just feel down depressed and stressed. Seems like this is much harder than my first one and like I'm going this alone. ...

Is this just a phase? I don't remember being this was with my first and that was only 2 years ago. Any advice or pick me ups is greatly appreciated. I don't know who else to vent or talk to about this.

Thanks