I went and picked out a beautiful ring today and they said it takes 3 weeks to come back which sucks, my old ring made my finger swell up so bad it turned purple (not bc it was fake but bc my fingers have gotten fat I've gained weight) and the one I picked out today was silver, my husbands ring is now gold bc he wanted a different one this time. Question is... Is it normal to not having matching rings with your husband??