After trying what's the point ?

Question

I dont know if i even want a child anymore , its too hard even tho this is what women are made for . why would i want to replace my baby in heaven for another baby's love ? If i was ment to be a mother i would've never lost my first baby right ? I know it sounds crazy but i tell myself these things as excuses to why i can't conceive ... Two of my sister's are prego and my best friend and they all smoke weed and cigarettes while with child.  I guess they deserve to be a mother more than me . life sucks

Answer

Don't make yourself bitter honey. Some women take longer than others. Took me a year, then I lost my baby. And I'm pregnant again. Way sooner than expected.
I didn't want kids growing up. I didn't want to be a single parent. I wanted to give my children a family, all children deserve that.But then I met a man that changed all that. Made me believe that I wouldn't have to be alone.
So losing a baby and having another is not replacing. It's adding to your family. That baby will always be apart of you. Regardless of how far along you were. 
So take your Prenatals, relax and hump it out like Jack rabbits with your boo. 
Don't turn baby making into a chore. 
#babydust #blessings

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Oh Shay, I think we have all told outselves that. I lost my first in September, it had taken me two years to feel settled and ready to try. It was there and then it was gone, definitely one of the worst things I have experienced.

I'm trying to tell myself that when I do get to hold my baby I will be that much more grateful because of the loss along the way. I have to remember this or I would probably never try again because I am a master at the what if game....and that won't serve me right now.

After trying what's the point ?

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