Does he just want sex or something more?

Question

There's this guy. We've been friends for 6 years, but lately things have changed. Both of us have admitted our attraction to each other, and since then our conversations have gone from what are you up to, to what are you wearing. So far it's been fun, but I can't tell if he wants me or just my body and have no idea how to talk to him about it. Any advice?

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Just ask him what he is looking for out of your relationship. In life you need to learn how to navigate uncomfortable conversations.

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Sounds like it is more just fun and games to him. If he is asking you "what are you wearing" before asking "want to go see a movie" then it sounds like he just wants sex. If a man wants more than sex it will be obvious. He will want to talk for hours, pick your brain, know your hobbies and dreams. If he only talks to you to get sexual than there is nothing more there than sex. 😕

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Relax and just let things flow. If you've been friends for six years, you can be reasonably sure that he's not just after your body.

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Maybe his feelings for you are confusing to him too... Like he doesn't know what to talk to you about now that he's admitted he likes you? Be careful though and TALK. sex could make or break the situation. --been there done that--

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Don't talk to him about it. Be yourself, relax, be flirty, be fun, stay busy, don't seek his reassurance. Keep doing what you did as his friend, because that's what attracted him to you. Keep loving yourself and staying busy doing what you love to do! Obviously he values you as a friend but sees potential for a little something more. And make that man ask you on proper dates for a few weeks or months before you begin to get intimate with him of you want to be sure this more than just wanting your body and if you want more than a sex buddy.

Does he just want sex or something more?

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