Feeling discouraged

Hey ladies, I just need to vent some emotions out. I have been off of my nuvaring for about nine months now and have we have been actively trying to conceive for about six months with no luck. I know it can take healthy couples up to a year or more to get pregnant and this is probably normal I'm just getting a little discouraged. My SO and I are both getting a little emotionally drained from the whole process. Some kind words from someone who understands what I am going through would go a long way.