My husband and I have been trying today me parents for three years now. Since he has gone through multiple rounds of chemotherapy we are unable to have children of our own. Recently, we have toying around with the ideas of adopting and becoming foster parents, I have also decided to become an egg donor and surrogate mother; however, I do not have a mentor or anyone  I can speak with about these decisions or processes and besides looking on the internet I have no reference points. Is there anyone who can guide me in the right directions?