undesirable 😔

this is weird for me to post and sorry for the rant, but lately I've been feeling a little "unwanted" by my husband. I always have to be the one to initiate sex, and even then I get a lot of "maybe tomorrow"s. I know he loves me and wants to be with me, and he also has been going thru a lot struggling with anxiety and being between jobs so I feel bad making it about me, but it's getting discouraging never feeling like he wants me sexually. I wish even just once and while that it would be him that made the move first. we've talked about it and he assures me there's nothing wrong and that I'm looking too much into it, and I know I do have more of a sex drive than he does anyway, but I'm just starting to feel really down about it and afraid he's getting bored with me after all these years. I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else gone thru this and can offer me advice?