Accidental babies

Gabrielle

So I am 25 I have noticed a lot of people I know getting pregnant by new relationships, unexpectedly. My close friend had a baby last year by a guy she was dating for a few weeks, while they aren't together she now has a new bf that she lives with and she seems happy.

I am in a relationship and is only been a few months, my first big relationship, and I'm so crazy about him. I think about babies all the time. He has a child who is perfectly beautiful. I want a baby with him so much. I'm in bc and we don't use condoms and while I would never ever trick him u can't help but hope it fails. I feel like I'm in a place where I can totally handle being a mom. I'm finishing my masters in social work in May and I know I'll find a job. I mean I know social workers don't make a ton of money but I can support myself especially as a MSW. I have student loans to help me in the time between the job and graduation. I just think that everyone is out here having sex and getting pregnant and having cute little unexpected families and I'm waiting on security and stuff. It seems dumb to wait. I think he would be upset at first and then he would get over it and be an awesome dad. He's such a cute dad already. He and his ex were surprised by their child but they got married (he knew he wanted to marry her way before that). He says that he thinks that 30 is a good age for kids by wtf no its not.... it's old. I want a baby now honestly. I think after I graduate will be a good time at the latest.

We got std tested before going condomless and started off using condoms then just stopped.

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