Evil sister in law ***update***

Okay. So I've been having bad luck with family issues this passed week. This time its....you guessed it "R" the sister in law.

I texted her to ask what would she like for me to get my nephew "L" for Xmas. Now in an earlier post I said I wanted to buy gifts and then take a picture, put the picture in a card and give it to her...you'll have to read my post titled evil sister in law to get the full story. Anyways I thought about it and it just seemed like I would stooping to her level if I did that. So instead I thought of just forgetting the picture and card BUT make a donation in "L"'s name to our local woman's shelter and The Salvation Army. So I texted R and asked what L needs. Well I get this text: Look Beth you are trying way too hard in my opinion. Always getting cheap things that are harmful to my baby BTW and I think perhaps you should tone it down. I know you desperately long for a baby of your own but I'm gonna ask that you stop "living through me". That was seriously the text I got. I started bawling my eyes out. My husband finally saw the texts ( I noticed that some have asked what my husband does or says to his sister about how she talks to me. Well I didn't let him know of the way she was talking to me...until now) He was so livid, he dialed her number went upstairs and started yelling at her. I didn't hear it all but I did hear him say that is discusting how she is talking to me. He also said that she should be ashamed. My husband then called his parents and said everything that has happened. I got on the phone with my in laws they apologized to me for their daughters actions and words towards me.

I then got a text about 20 mins ago it was from R. She asked for us to meet tomorrow and talk. So that's what I'm doing tomorrow. I hope my tongue doesn't betray me and say everything I want to say.