Libido

Anyone else struggle with a super low libido or have advice for upping your libido? I have the hardest time getting in the mood and even if the mood strikes me, he's not home and when he gets home the moment has passed or when we start having sex I'm just not as into it as I used to be. It's awful, my husband is the best sex I've ever had and we used to be like bunnies but over the last year or so it's gotten real slow in that department. I miss our crazy sex life but I have a hard time getting wet now and I can't seem to turn my brain off during. I don't really like using lube bc I never needed it before and I feel like it breaks the moment to stop and put it on. How do you ladies get your self in the mood? PS I won't use porn to get in the mood, not judging anyone who does, it's just what we feel is best for our relationship.