How can I enjoy oral?

Question

I only had it one time from an ex. It was his first time giving it and he didn't know what to do and I didn't know what to tell him because I'd never received it before. I don't think I was really ready for it and I wasn't that sexually attracted to my ex, so I remember laying there, basically paralyzed with anxiety about it and how I probably smelled and tasted disgusting. I used to love the idea of oral sex, but I think it's been ruined for me. I'm nervous to receive it again with the next guy I date and I don't want him to think I'm a freak for being so weird about it.

Answer

Shower before. I only receive oral when I fresh down there. This way I'm confident, shaved and clean.

Men need to hear the moans, feel your legs squeezing his head and your hand grabbing his hair to be able to tell what's working and what's not working when he gives oral. The only thing you can really do is lay there and moan, lol.

Fingering and action from his tongue can make me reach an orgasm quicker than just tongue action. Tell him what you want. Use your moan and tell him if you want it higher, lower, faster and etc. He's there to please you, trust me they get off to just your satisfaction.

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OK so I'm gonna say that I'm sure you didn't smell or taste as bad as your thinking. My hubby loves to go down on me especially when he's in the mood, it doesn't matter if I'm fresh out the shower, or we just hot done working out when he wants it he loves it. And if your really worried about how you taste to him drink juice and have something sweet(stay away from onions if you can). Believe me when I say when you find a guy that loves it you won't be shy about letting him be down there.

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Honestly it just comes with time. I'm sorry if this is disturbing, but when I was abused as a kid, the person abusing me would give me oral and for the longest time I told myself I would never let anyone else do it because it haunted me so much. But the combination of forgiveness and slowly introducing it into my life with someone I love has really helped. My SO started off as just putting pressure down there with his mouth while I was still wearing pants and told me that if I needed him to stop, to say so. Then after a month or so of doing that, the pants came off and he did the same thing with just undies. Now he can do it like normal and I love it! It just takes time and the right person to be patient with you :)

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I hated it at first and I refuse it while I'm pregnant even though my fiancé doesn't understand lol but anyway I always make sure I bathe almost immediately before and if he doesn't know what he's doing don't be afraid to guide him. Also the make
Lube that tastes awesome if you're really worried about it

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Oh man. Oral was so weird for me. I hated it at first and told people that for a very long time. Eventually I let someone in and let them give me oral and I've been obsessed since! In fact, it's just about the only way I can get off. I just make sure I go and "freshen up" first if it's been a long day or whatever. You'll get comfortable in due time. Don't let anyone force you. I also recommend you doing it with someone you deeply care about & vice versa. It'll be much better that way. ❤️

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PINEAPPLES GURL. eat some everyday lol they'll make you taste sweeter (any fruit will but pineapples are best). It's important to incorporate healthy food and fruits into your diet if you want to taste as best as you can. Of course women aren't supposed to taste like candy but your diet does affect how you taste(so be mindful of that). You should try masturbating so that you can be familiar with your own body & figure out what you like. Then, once you are comfortable enough to have oral sex with your partner hopefully you won't be as self concious & you'll even be able to instruct him on how to make you O. A lot of men love to please their woman so take advantage of that!

How can I enjoy oral?

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