telling others about your pregancy

steph • 38 weeks; Due May 4th 👣
horribly upset because my family thinks they can tell others about my pregnancy without my consent. how is that even okay? they never ask me how I feel about it, I guess they just assume I'm excited. truth is I'm not, I'm depressed because I feel like my life is going to be complicated doing everything myself (I'm 18) no one sees my pain & no one in my family has dealt with antepartum depression so they wouldn't understand what I'm going through even when I try to explain they say it's a "phase", it'll pass, "baby blues". I'm so upset & I don't know what to do it makes me want to cry when I even talk about how mad I am & in this state, I cannot confront them about it but I know I'll have to. what can I do?!