Secret FB group

So I joined a secret FB. for Sept 2016 babies and I left after about 5 hours. I couldn't stand the posts (when should I annouce, baby names, etc..). My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years with an RE and after 2 mc, we are pregnant again for the 3rd time. Honestly, at this point I am just hoping this babies sticks and each day I wake up hoping the same thing. I can't even imagine thinking about baby names, when I am going to announce, etc... it's just my reality of TTC for long. Anyone feel the same way?