Sex life lacking? 😳

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Anyone's husbands just kind of turned off by you being pregnant? Seems my husband isn't horny. Which means hardly any sex. Which leads me to feel distant from him, which leads to me being completely annoyed by him. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Feeling very blah towards him at the moment. 🙄

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Yep same. I still get cuddles at night but no sex or romance or anything else. He said its weird for him now so I try to understand but it still hurts and is shit. Plus I'm only 25+ weeks so it's going to be a loooiong wait

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Is it sad to say I wish that would happen with mine!! I swear mine gets more horny the further I get and I just get more uncomfortable and not in the mood.  Lol

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My SO doesn't feel comfortable having sex with me. He thinks he will hurt the baby, even after I made him Google and docs have told him it's fine. Last time we did it I was a out 18 weeks....I'm 28 now. I doubt it will happen till baby is out and I'm healed. It sucks though. Totally kills your self esteem!

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In the same boat! I'm 26 weeks. We still have sex because I'm like okay, we need to have sex and he will comply...lol but he is turned off by the bump. He says it's weird and it makes him uncomfortable. I kind of get it. I've read it's healthier to be sexually active for when you go into labor and I told him that. We still do it but it's forced!

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With mine his libido has seriously decreased since I've gotten pregnant... so has mine. So we seriously have to make an effort to have sex. I mean its not to the point where  he will turn me down. But it doesn't come as naturally as it did before.

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Ugh same here! I feel like he has prego phobia lol! & it sucks cause I really want it all the time.. My sex drive has gone completely sky high. Idk what to do with myself lol

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I kinda wish that my husband except he's the opposite!. The bigger I get the more crazy he gets lol

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Yes same here. We sat down and had a chat about it and I ended up offering him other "favors" instead. It seems the distance was coming from that men will usually maturbate more to make up for the less sex and then are less affectionate because they are essentially fulfilled.
That made me feel bad and i really wanted some sort of connection. We "connect" about once a week and only recently had sex for the first time since I found out I am pregnant (26 weeks).
Good luck!

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Annoyingly familiar.... Sigh

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My sex life with my husband has definitely been lacking. Mostly I feel like it's mostly me though...I just don't get turned on when I can feel the baby kicking inside of me. Not to mention the baby bump is a constant reminder that there's a child in me, so it's hard for me to feel sexy!

Sex life lacking? 😳

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