Do you let your SO go to parties without you?

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He's a grown man,  I'm not his mom!

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I don't "let" him do anything. He's an adult and I'm not his mother, he doesn't need my permission. That being said, on the rare occasion he goes somewhere without me, all I ask is he lets me know where he will be and when he's coming home. I would like to know at what point I should worry if he hasn't returned.

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I don't "let" or "not let" my adult husband do anything.

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When people say things to me like, "you let him do that?" It really gets on my nerves. I'm not his mother, I don't "let" him do anything. We talk about it and if I'm not comfortable then he doesn't go, his choice. I have 150% trust in my boyfriend and our relationship is amazing because of it. 
But yes ladies, I "allow" my SO to go to parties, strip clubs, watch porn, etc. At the end of the day he's a man and he has desires. Those desires can be met without cheating on me and he knows that just as well as I do.

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I trust my husband to respect me and if he doesn't, in the end he feels worse about it than I do. I don't give him any hard time if he wants to go to the bar or something with the guys but he's respects me by not coming home at a late hour or coming home smashed. As far as "house parties" unless it's a special occasion, he won't go because thankfully he not into that at the age of 30. He went to the strip club for his bachelor party  and the while time, his friends were trying to be hush hush around me and my husband was like, she already knows, she doesn't care. They went and were back in an hour or two, they said he refused any lap dances...and I didn't even have to nag him!

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I don't "not let him" because he respects me enough to choose not to go without me.

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If he wanted to and I don't get what parties he would be invited to where I wasn't. If it's a scheduling conflict of course, why shouldn't he not go because I can't.

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Allow isn't the word I'd use but my husband goes to parties without me because I don't enjoy that sorta thing but he does. He always invites me and asks if I'd rather him stay with me. I've never seen a reason he shouldn't do something he likes because I don't care for it.

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He always wants me to go he's never gone without me or wanted to go without me. Honestly I don't understand why a man wouldn't want his girl to come

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I voted no. He and I are parents. So for us to get to go out whether parties or dinner, we go together. Now I wouldn't have a problem if he went by himself, if I didn't want to go or couldn't go. But we looking at doing parties or clubs or what have you as 'date night'

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