Tips for pleasure

Amanda • I am happily in love with my soul mate! We are ready to start our family me him n my 11yr old daughter!
So I am trying to find easy ways to deep throat my man. He's pretty big and I gag but I'd really like to please him and take him all. Any tips ladies willing to try anything??!! He is an amazing man! And also any tips for positions, new things to try in bed, and anal its getting easier but still hurts??