Ok, so my OH is dying today as he has not taken his usual morning shit and is therefore slightly constipated (this will be my third day of having not gone by the way but who cares right?) we live in a bungalow with my mum and it has has two bathrooms (one being our ensuite and one a family bathroom)...now the ensuite is right next to our bed. I've been asking him to use the other one for a number two because, like a man, he goes about 2-3 times a day and I can't cope with the smell right next to the bed (im usually in bed for most of the day at the moment due to fatigue and nausea and all that comes with carrying twins). I'm only 13weeks so the slight smell can send me into a scene from the exorcist and yet, he refuses to use the family toilet because it makes him feel 'uncomfortable' and that my mum might want to use it.) why does he find it so difficult to put me first now and then? Especially over something that will make me so unwell!? It's the only thing I refuse to compromise on because I'm suffering with every symptom already, one less would be so much appreciated :-( I could cry right now! :-( x