From midwife to obgyn...

From the first time I met my midwife I have felt uncomfortable. I don't feel welcome. I feel ashamed to be pregnant. That's the way she's made me feel. This is my fourth and last pregnancy. I'm 5'5 and 186 which is considered obese, but I don't see it. I carry my weight evenly. We aren't finding out the sex until birth, then yesterday right after we told her, she says well that's a girls heart rate. Thanks a bunch! So we're switching to an ob. I can't feel uncomfortable. I've gained 13 pounds at 17+3 and she's upset. I still have morning sickness if i don't take my diclegis, and she won't give me any not because I'm gaining. And that's because I'm not vomiting due to the meds. Now I'm out and praying I don't get sick. Ugh