Help....!!! Going to a stripclub with husband an ok thing to do..????

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So me and my husband and his brother sister and cousin went to party and ended up in a stripclub in Mexico.... At first I was okay but as soon as I saw the way my husband looked at them and how  he barely noticed I was next to him just made me very upset.... We stayed there for an hr and he couldn't keep his eyes off a tripper that kept smiling and showing her boobs to him.... Now I don't seem to trust him and I feel like our relationship is coming to an end... Any advice as to how to get over it... Has it happened to anyone.... Please I need help on saving my marriage....!!!!!!

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Maybe go to a male strip club and look at the men like he looked at the women. It would only be fair. That's one way for him to see how it feels.

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Before you call it quits, strip for him. I bet you get the same reaction, except no money and just one tip ;)

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I'm not going to be one of those girls that tells you to just up and leave your husband because that's not my decision to make but if  I were in your situation I would definitely be considering it. It's okay that you went to a strip club together when you were all hanging out but it's not okay that he was creepily into it and didn't acknowledge your existence and pretended like you weren't there.

If you do work things out with him I would definitely be putting a stop to the strip club outings.

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Men like boobs it's a fact. Men like to look at boobs that they have never seen before. I think looking is fine but touching is a no no. My husband and I like going to strip clubs together and have since we were dating. I'm confident in my boobs and don't feel intimidated at strip clubs. My husband would never cheat and especially not with an exotic dancer.

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Looking is one thing and having sex is another. Not to be rude but he was at a strip club....you can't take a man Into a strip club and be mad when he looks. It's just natural. It's nothing to get mad about in my opinion

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Never should have gone

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I went to a strip club with an ex and he completely ignored the other girls he made sure I was comfortable all night buying me dances and made sure I had fun. But I would never be able to go with my husband to a strip club I think its because I truly love my husband and with the ex I saw him more as a friend. But I would not be comfortable with my hubby around naked women hell no

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It's new to him and exciting. My boyfriend was the sameway when we went. I wanted to sit on his lap and he basically told me to get off. It upset me at first, but I know he would never do anything with someone. The whole reason she was smiling and showing her boobs is because it's her job. I highly doubt she wanted him like that.

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You need to tell him how you feel

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Most men love boobs. There's really nothing else to it. It's not like he's in love with the stripper. They just love boobs. lol

Help....!!! Going to a stripclub with husband an ok thing to do..????

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