I was dating my best friend. And life got in the way. Between him fighting for custody of his daughter and me being a mom of twins. It began to get hard.

We both had the idea that it would be better to split up and handle life then when all was said and done we would see if we wanted to be together and try again.

Only difference is i remembered we were friends first.

I was waiting to tell him in person. Because i knew it was still gonna hurt.

Instead i find out hes already skipped town living as a bum with no job and has my stuff ive been begging him for for months now.

I know him living that way is not going to help him get his daughter and that how he handled this was wrong.

I told him that how he did it was beyond rude and regardless of what happwned between us as a couple it was not going to stop me from stoll being his best friend.

I need feedback ladies. How would you have handled this.