Why do people feel the need to ALWAYS insist that you need to wait for marriage to try to conceive a child.... I'm willing to bet the same ones that look down on this are also against abortion and the second a couple conceives accidentally will scream about killing an innocent child... WHO CARES when someone wants to have a baby as long as it's with love and support. It is none of your damn business what the relationship is between to people and these women come on here asking for our opinion and they get blasted for THEIR FUCKING CHOICE? That's just sad. How about you take care of your life and keep on with your choices and answer the questions being asked instead of trying to push your opinions, morals, religion down the throats of women who are just coming here for an open ear. Some of you women make me sick.... that's all.