I might be overreacting...right???

So I see my boo boo 3-4 times a week. I stay in the south and he stays in the west so its a long way there and because of our strong African traditions we not allowed to stay together until he pays up half of the amount my family will charge him to marry me.

He works in sales and its usually hectic at this time of the year at his workplace we used to work in the same place so I know. But he has been acting weird for the past few weeks and i can't pin point exactly what's going on, he says im imagining things and for the past two night we have a fun time chiling but as soon as we go to bed, he wants to have sex and he bangs me so good but wtf he doesnt kiss me and so it doesnt feel as great to me as it does to him.

He might be just tired and instead of doing the whole fourplay thing he just gets into it then sleeps but I dnt like it. I feel like a sex plate...eat your dinner and sleep, no emotions at all. Yeah he still pulls me close to him before sleeping and says I love you before he sleeps and when he wakes up but God dammit, I wana be kissed and touched not just on my clit