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My first baby I carried passed at 32 weeks. Hardest thing I ever experienced. He was perfect and only explanation I got was a cyst on the umbilical cord. I'm currently 20 weeks pregnant with a little girl. I'm having a gender reveal party on Saturday. It was hard for me when I found out I was having a girl, not because I don't love her, but because I had made dreams for a son. Plus, I really wanted to give me husband a son because I have a step daughter. A lot of my family wanted a boy to I believe. I'm scared their disappointment is going to upset me again, but this time in front of a lot of people. I love my girl! Anyone been there before how did you handle it?