What gets you excited for sex??

I get really turned on when I initiate sex and I start off with kissing it makes me feel like I have all the control and I love it, sometimes when he isn't in the mood I'll jump him because it excited me like he wants to but is waiting for me to make a move so he acts like he isn't bothered until he's begging me to make him cum and this is a new thing with me he would always be the one to make a move we have been together 12 years and sex used to be constant until I went off it for a year😖 but I bounced back and I love that I can get things going for a change. So what's your turn ons??