When you give 110% &they give 5%

Kinda long please excuse my horrible Grammar.

Normaly I am the one who takes my fights to the extreme. I say stuff I don't mean like how I will call the cops on how my SO cousin for breaking his work release jail stuff. Well today at church I feel the pastor really reached out to me and I felt like I finally was helped. So today after 2 hours of cooking for my SIL and thier cousin. I DID all the dishes and cleaned up, then gave our son a bath got him to bed and cleaned more. All I asked was for a phone call from my SO. HE had to make a 2 hour drive. Nothing he gets home i didn't freak out I sat him down and explain why I was mad and how he never even said thank you for todAy. He said I am in the wrong and he is losing interest wtf how is this the first I'm hearing of this! I'm lost and just need someone to talk to