Drama, drama...
My husband came home from work today and immediately I could tell he was aggravated. He told me his sister is coming from Kentucky to visit the family in April. Apparently she's bringing her trashy, wannabe gangster boyfriend. This guy is several years younger than she is and posts pictures of himself on Facebook throwing up gang signs while holding guns and that sort of thing. My husband and I are both in law enforcement. Her mother, who currently lives with his grandparents, calls to tell my hubby she suggested to his sister that she ask if the two of them can stay with us because his grandparents refuse to let his sisters boyfriend stay with them.
My husband immediately says NO, because of two things. One, we have very nice things that we don't want to go missing and two, we could both lose our jobs because of this idiot. He also smokes marijuana, by the way. His mom got upset and starts arguing with my husband over it.
I bit my tongue but this woman makes me so mad...first off, why would she even suggest that? Second of all, you don't help pay our bills...why would you basically offer our house without even talking to us first? Third, I find it highly disrespectful for her to keep on harping on it after my husband has said no, we don't want him in OUR house. This isn't the first time she has argued with my husband about what/who we don't want coming over.
We are thinking about talking with his mom about this issue of her wanting to come over or inviting others over but then not respecting our wishes in regards to our morals/beliefs. Any idea on how to go about starting such a conversation?
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