Abusive or paranoid? 😰

Question

Hey guys... I don't know what's going on anymore but I feel like my relationship isn't going so well anymore.

My boyfriend gets mad at me very easily now when I don't text him for like 5 mins and he automatically thinks I'm cheating or something and starts to guilt trip me.

But then he starts being all cute and lovely dovey... Am I in an abusive relationship? Am I being used!? 😰

Answer

Most frequently this paranoia happens when people are cheating. The whole accusing you of doing it is a telltale sign he may be. Try asking some questions, if he won't answer or immediately gets angry assume the worse and leave. You don't need someone who can't be honest with you, but expects you to be honest to them.

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It might not be abusive yet but it might be headed that way. My ex was verbally/emotionally abusive. He started out accusing me of cheating when I didn't respond immediately. Then he would get pissed if I spent time with anyone other than him. Even my best girl friend was accused of being a lesbian and trying to steal me 😒 Then came the threats of suicide and blaming me for all of his problems. It got to the point where I couldn't go grocery shopping without him. Don't let it get that far. Just leave! You will be much happier without having to walk on eggshells around him.

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I dealt with that for years with my ex. It's hard. I didn't consistently feel that I was being verbally abused, but I was a bit daft in my love for him. If it keeps up and affects you emotionally and mentally I'd do something about it. Just take care of yourself. 
My experience is my own (He became schizophrenic and very paranoid about everyone).

Reassuring your bf that all is well and that you really are faithful and instilling in him that you want to be where you are will help. Even if he knows already it helps to hear.

Hang in there ❤️ not sure of this helps at all but you are strong and will know the right call.

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I think you should break up with him. Typically that paranoia happens if he's cheating on you/:

Abusive or paranoid? 😰

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