Should I talk to my friend?

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My friend belittles her husband all the time. He doesn't do anything to deserve it (in my opinion). Like if he disagrees with her about anything (like which chocolate bar is better) she "jokingly" says "do you want to sleep on the couch?"

And when we all went out to ice cream she and I were talking about being cold and my husband says to me "I could warm you up" *wink* and she immediately turns to her husband and says "don't get any ideas!"

When he isn't around she complains about him not waiting on her hand and foot.

Should I say something to her about what I think? Or just leave it alone?

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Nope. Bite your tongue. It'll only cause problems, trust me.

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Leave it alone. Honestly I feel for the guy I do. But it's not your marriage to be concerned about. A person can only take so much crap from someone before they just say "fuck it I've had enough" . I'm sure once he's had enough he'll leave. but it doesn't seem to bother him he loves her that much to put up with it

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Not your marriage. Not your place.

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Maybe that's just how they are.  My husband and I rip on each other all the time. My mom always says I'm mean to him but he is just as mean back.  If we weren't insulting each other then there would be something wrong lol.  We did our maternity photo shoot yesterday and the lady told us to look at each other lovingly and smile and through smiling teeth I said "I hate your face" and he said "I know, I hate you too". Lol!

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If she was my friend I would tell her or ask her about it. Example: "is that you playing around?" Or "you don't think that was a bit rude?"... You say she complains about him & by my interpretation is what you're saying, it doesn't seem like the "joking" is mutual. I would say something. I actually did just yesterday to my brother after a comment he made to his wife but after she said she didn't mind & he said they seriously play that way, I said ok & will never say something again cuz that's how they are. But people should care enough o stand up for others. Do it!!!

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If you're her friend you should both have the confidence and maturity to talk it over. She's being way too demanding and that's definitely not how to keep your man. Try finding out if she has insecurities about her relationship and show her that if she values her relationship with her man then she has GOT to value HIM. Men need respect and value just as much as we do.

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I had a co worker do this o the midst innocent puppy dog boyfriend... She complained that he wasn't proposing and like the simplest things like nit taking the tag to the curb when he gets home from work but rather before bed.. When ssh was home all day to do it...  I understand how frustrating it is but i would leave it be... He is a big boy and he can draw the line as well...

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Maybe if it bothers you then you shouldn't be friends with them anymore. I had a friend that did the same thing and it bothered me and I'm sure it bothered him because he would give me a look, but that isn't my business. He chooses to stay with her, and I chose to not hang out with her when he is around because it makes me very uncomfortable.

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Is she your best friend? If not leave it alone they seem happy and only joking

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I would joke with her right at the time it happens. Like, seriously girl? Jeez poor hubby!!! Something like this. She would get the point. If you talk to her, I know you too will not continue to be friends.

Should I talk to my friend?

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