My boyfriend and I are both 20. we talk about the future all the time like what we hope our family will be like and what we want our future to be like. Well he tells me all the time that he wants to be married a while then have kids. But I want to start a family now. I know I'm young and I'm not reallyfinancially ready for a baby but all the thinking about starting a family with the one I love makes me happy and really makes me want to start one. He says he's not ready but when it comes to us having sex he doesn't use protection and he doesn't even pull out. I thought I was pregnant a month ago and I was kinda getting excited because I thought I was but I didn't want to tell him because  he asked me if I would get a abortion if I was and I just got super depressed. He's a really sweet guy and he just wants what's best for the two of us. So I figured I'd ask some of you moms and moms to be for your opinion. Also please don't be to harsh on him. Thanks girls