I think I could be bi, but does it matter if I'm in a serious hetero relationship?

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So I am engaged to a man, getting married this year. But I'm wondering if I'm bi. I obviously wouldnt act on it at all, but does it really matter? I think I might be bi because I've always really liked girl on girl porn, I kissed a girl at one point when I was questioning my sexuality, I sexted with a girl, and wanted to date a girl. I never have seen myself marrying a girl though. Theres a lot of other things too that I just cant think of at the moment. 
I'm wanting to figure it out if it matters, but if it doesnt then I can just leave it alone. Even if I am, I would only tell like 2 people because a lot of people I know in my family are homophobic.

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Bisexual means you are attracted to both. Not that you want both at the same time. It is completely possible to have a fulfilling relationship with one person, whether they are male or not.

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I think you might be human. Your feelings seem natural to me.

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I'm bisexual and engaged to a man. We are having our first baby. I've had sex with girls and have always been interested in them. It doesn't affect our relationship.

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Right there with you, though I had dated girls before meeting my now husband. I told my husband when we first started dating so that he was aware and I was honest with him. He said it didn't bother him. I loved knowing a was marrying a man who accepted all of me.

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It's called a mixed-orientation marriage (MOM), and you wouldn't be the only person to be in one! Lots of bi people are in hetero relationships, but it doesn't change the fact that they're bi. I hope you have an honest and gentle conversation with your fiancé about your identity and needs, because they're still an important part of you. Good luck!

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Im bi and have been married to my husband for 13 years!! It doesn't matter at all, as long as you're in love with him! Nothing wrong with having a lil fantasy 😉😉

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Engaged to be married this year. Still hella bi.

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So have you talked to your SO about this? If you have desires, you will eventually want them to be met. I suggest working this out before you drag him into a lie.

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I'm bi and have identified as such for as long as I've had a sexual identity. I've been with both genders and I ended up married to a man. Honestly, it could just as easily have been a woman. You are who you are and you love who you love!

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Of course not, sexuality doesn't switch off once you're in a relationship!

I think I could be bi, but does it matter if I'm in a serious hetero relationship?

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