He doesn't want sex. HELP?!

Question

My s/o has gradually got less and less inclined to have sex or anything remotely physical.
It's been 2 months and we've had sex twice... It's killing me. 
We had 4 months of me being away so obviously there was a dry patch then but it feels like he just hasn't really been horny since. 
He says that he doesn't like how he looks at the moment and that he'll be happier when he loses some weight but I never thought that could so significantly affect his libido?

Am I being pushy or insensitive? 
Does anyone have any ideas on how to get the romance back into the bedroom?

Answer

I'm the same wth my SO! I dnt want sex either and haven't for a while.. I have a low sex drive .. And my SO has a really high sex drive sometimes I think I wish my SO can go have sex with someone else so they leave me alone -.- but then again I suffer with depression and anxiety ..
I legit sometimes think I wish we can still be in a relationship minus sex .. 😳

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He could have low testosterone  but also if he feels unattractive that could effect him as well my husband is a combat war veteran and we have a lot of sex but their are times when he just doesn't want sex or has issues in that dept. It's because he thinks too much about war etc. Maybe ur so needs to talk to a Dr or something to get to the underlying issues.

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Body image can really hinder things I'd encourage him to start some healthier habits and remind him often that he's sexy to me !

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Have his testosterone checked it could be low. He could also have depression. He needs to see a dr.

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That sounds odd for a guy to worry about...tippy sure he's not watching too much porn or somethin else?

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Tell him that's not an excuse ..just switch off the light ! Even more romantic ;)

He doesn't want sex. HELP?!

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