Anyone else,?

My husband irritates the hell out of me when he wants sex. He follows me around and grabs my lady parts kisses on my neck. Everything you could possibly think of. Then when o want it really bad and I think I'm going to get it at bed time he passes the Fuck out when his head hits the pillow. He really pisses me off. I would never cheat but can't help wonder if there would actually be some one out there who would not just think only about their sexual needs. Our sex life use to be mutual satisfaction. Now it's all about him. No foreplay. No kissing or caressing. No cuddling nothing intimate at all. I'm getting sick of it and would like some one to want me as bad as I want them. Not just a a selfish one way relationship.