Women are more than boobs

I am seriously thinking that when I get done having children, I will get a breast reduction. I have been above a DD all of my adult life. It seems my weight has little to do with my boobs, they are big no matter what size I am. I am seven months pregnant at the moment, I've only gained two lbs, but I am in a 36 K. My back hurts so bad. Anyway, when I complain about it, or discuss the reality of a reduction in my future, I get the, "No, don't do it!", or, "Just lose weight, they'll go down.", "But I like them." "Do you know how much people pay for boobs?" from people I know. Recently, I've been looking online about why my boobs are this way, reduction procedures, etc, I'm seeing a lot of men in the comment sections saying that if you have large boobs you should just deal with it because your man is so lucky. There were other comments but this was the jist of most of them. This is part of the problem with sexualizing boobs I feel. I feel like I'm just a walking pair of boobs to many people around me. I know I have been treated differently growing up and even now because of my boobs. I know women on the opposite end of the spectrum who have small boobs and experience shaming. I really hope  I do not have a daughter go through things I have as a result of my chest size. I could ramble on, but I guess for now I'll just ask, do men/should men get a say about a woman's boobs? I feel I would say no, but at the same time I wouldn't go through with a reduction without exstensively talking with my male SO.