So I'm dating a guy who is eight years older than me. I'm 23 and he just turned 31. He doesn't look his age at all he actually looks my age. He has a good job with benefits that he has been on for eight years. I really like him but he makes comments like you're a kid he says he's just joking but when I call him paw paw he gets offended. He says he like my personality but I love to have fun despite occasion, venue, it just doesn't matter. And some time I think he likes it but he gets irritated but I don't care because that's what he claim he likes the most about me. I want to be in a relationship but I don't know. We see one another everyday almost and when my mom ask him were we dating he said no we are only friends so I'm just like WTF. Normally im cool with that but it's like this I like him I total loss my car and he was there when I bought my new car. He massages my feet whenever I ask. Basically he plays the BF Role well but he doesn't want to be my boyfriend. What should I do I don't want to stop talking to him but I don't want to be waiting for life !!Us last night and basically every night until he leaves and go home.