I don't know who my baby's father is

Kimberly

I feel horrible for having to post about this but here I am. I was going through some stuff and dealing with it all the wrong ways. It's no excuse. As my mom would say, God works in mysterious ways. I am extremely excited to be a Momma. My Momma had a foster home and ran a day care my whole life. I grew up helping raise children. I know I'm capable of the journey in frony of me and I'm not worried about people questioning that aspect.

But ....

I am scared to make the announcement because everyone is going to ask who the father is and I don't know. There is two possibilities. After I get my first ultrasound, I will be talking to both and explaining the situation. I'll get DNA for a paternity test when baby is born. But when I make my announcement (once I'm safely past the three month mark) I don't know how to answer the impending question. Who is the dad?!?! I don't want to admit to people who aren't close to me that I don't know who the father is.

What I'm asking for here is advice. From woman who have dealt with this situation personally and have ideas on how I can answer the question. Or just from anyone who might help. Please. And thanks in advance ❤

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