Can I vent?

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Yesterday was our first real outing aside from Doctor visits. We went to my husband's family gathering, and my daughter stayed overnight with my MIL(so I could rest) and she went to a babyshower with my MIL all in the same day. 

.. Now is the upsetting part

My husband wanted to go to a BBQ today as well. I told him to just take me and baby girl home because it was going to be in a huge field and not really newborn friendly. And I didn't want her to be around too many more people. He got very pissy!😳 He decided since I won't go to the BBQ that he's not going to go neither. He's just going to stay home and moan, groan and roll his eyes every time I try to talk to him. (Like a 15 year old girl!) OH AND IT'S HIS FAMILY'S BBQ!! Why do I have to be there? Why is he being so selfish to put his child and wife at an inconvenience? Why is he being so childish by moping around the house and trying to make me feel bad for being a good mom? 😤UGH! Be careful who you procreate with.  🙄 😑FIN😑

P. S. She's been with his family all weekend. A newborn in a large field and in the sun, isn't the best.