Another MIL rant....😡

Anyone else having trouble holding their tongue with their MIL?? (Pardon my language from here on out. Fair warning.) This bitch is a piece of work. She has the nerve to call my husband and ask for money! I get so damn frustrated at him, because he gives it to her. And I'm quite pissed at her, because she asks for it! Let me take a step back here. I have despised this woman since her son and I got together...she does nothing, but sit at home on her ass in front of a computer, playing a stupid game! She does not work or anything. Her husband works his ass off to support her ass, him, and their 5 kids (my husband is the 6th kid, but he doesn't need her support.) This man has worked so much he looks 10 years older than he is and it breaks my heart. This woman has been asking for money for the last 5 years whenever she need something. When my husband got a job at my family's shop, she told him he has to pay her $50 in rent to just live there. We were trying to save our money to get us an apartment, but not she had to have that $50. He didn't make alot, so I payed for everything for the first 1 1/2 years he worked there, so he could pay her. (He always bitched about it then.) Fast forward to 2 years later, we moved out of our parents houses and to Kentucky. I went to school, he supported me, yada yada yada. 6 months there and we missed seeing our families ( I didn't miss seeing her.) We moved back, but couldn't find a place to live. So, we had to move in with her 😑 he got a great job at a factory after a couple months of living there and I found one also. Anything we ate, we bought (that her or half her kids ate without asking. We didn't want to owe her anything else, so we bought our own food, tp, etc.) Before we moved out she made damn sure we paid back everything we ever owed her and then some! (Also, I had to be a fucking teacher to her kids for home school because she didn't want to get her lazy ass out of bed! My husband works 12 hour shifts and we both had to make sure they did it. We are not their parents, that's not our job!) One kid ended up failing, because she would lie about homework or going to a session. At one point they had an electricity bill that was really high and she made us pay 1/2 of it. I dont find that fair when we worked most days and used very little electricity. We basically paid for us and all the electricity her kids used (which was alot bc all they were worried about was playing on the computer or stupid games.) My mother said she should have dicided it all all up, but no she made us pay half.When we finally moved out (bc I thought I was going to murder her) which was about 8 months later. She would ask for money. She would say she didn't have enough for a bill or her husband spent it all on stupid shit(which was a lie.) And my husband would give it to her. No matter what I say, he says I'm just trying to help her out. That would be OK if she was working and was just tight on money that month, but NO! She doesn't! *oh and I forgot to add, she moved her gf in, yes her gf, who now doesn't have a job anymore, and her mother, who just went through a rough patch with cancer.* her mother is so upset bc she had nothing really to do with her, so she went through chemo and radiation by herself with no support except me and my husband. (She's cancer free now btw.) All this woman can do is go out to eat almost everyday with her gf and play a stupid game on the computer. It drives me up the wall! All the kids have chores (which they basically have to clean up the entire house and look after her million of animals while she sits on her ass.) Anyway, my point of this rant was she just asked him to buy the rest of her easter groceries bc her husband forgot some then turns around yesterday and asked him for money to buy dog food! But today apparently it's for a bill. So which is it?! She lies about it just to get it and he just keeps giving to her. I have told him so many times, if she needs money that bad she can get a job or her gf can. We have a child on the way for Christ sakes!! She knows this and still asks! And nothing I say to him changes anything! He basically told me well it's too late now or that if it was more than $20 then I wouldn't have done it (which is bullshit) he can't ever tell her no! @$!#@$!##@$($@!!!!!!! Sigh, I'm sorry that it was really long and all my bitching, but I can't take this shit. She has to stop this, and I know for a fact she won't pay us back like she promises. Help me before I kill her....

**UPDATE**

My husband and I just had a long discussion about it and he apologized and said he won't give her money again, that he understands where I'm coming from. Let's just see how long this lasts. Another thing was, he wanted me to be a SAHM. If that's what we do we are going to need every penny. Sigh only time will tell.